证明:(1)∵BF=DE,∴BF-EF=DE-EF,即BE=DF,∵AE⊥BD,CF⊥BD,∴∠AEB=∠CFD=90°,∵AB=CD,∴Rt△ABE≌Rt△CDF(HL);(2)连接AC,交BD于点O,∵△ABE≌△CDF,∴∠ABE=∠CDF,∴AB∥CD,∵AB=CD,∴四边形ABCD是平行四边形,∴AO=CO.